How About Some Salary Negotiating Tips Just for Women?

Posted by jkchapman on June 02, 2010
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Can women make substantial progress in closing the gap with men when it comes to higher salaries in business and industry? Recent high profile news items claim women can do better if they negotiate. However, as more and more women decide to ask for more money they will face the same hurdles as men.

Here are seven great tips for women in salary negotiations.

1. Many women have shared a sense of panic when the job offer is made. They are often grateful that there is a salary offer. Women are not alone in this reaction. Many men have it too. The failure to take the next step sinks a lot of negotiations. That next step is to enthusiastically thank your employer for job, express your sincere joy of joining the team and then ask for a day or two for time to look at the offer, talk to people in your life or whatever, and say. “Is it possible to get back to you in the next 48 hours?”

2. Be prepared. Know the salary ranges for your job. Know the five Salary Making rules as presented in my book, Negotiating your Salary: How to Make $1000. a Minute. Having information on how the process works will make you more confident.

3. To make the most of the 48 hours you just gained in step #1, you, like top-ranking male counterparts, need to build a trust relationship with a salary coach who can guide you through negotiations. Note that highly paid executives do not flinch at the notion of hiring a consultant or coach. In your situation, the major companies negotiate with people everyday. They have experience that will not be available to you. So benefit from a coach who can guide you.

Do not be frightened off at the prospect of seeking help in the form of coaching. What experienced business executives know about coaching costs can benefit you as well. The additional compensation that a coach directed and inspired strategy pays not only for the coaching but continues to put money in your pocket. Some small gains in compensation can sometimes mean often upwards of a quarter of million extra dollars to you over a career.

4. Now you have built room to consider everything. This is where you and your coach review your entire package create a strategy to ask for what is fair and what you need, look at how you will be paid at the next evaluation and make sure that all of the short and long term benefits are available to you. Losing a little up front may not seem significant but over a 30-year career it can be big money.

5. Here is a word of caution. Some women and a lot of men are independent macho types who at a certain stage get a sense that they can negotiate the salary for new job themselves. They get as much information as possible and go for it. The only thing they fail at is keeping a comprehensive picture and in their gung-ho style they leave money on the table that they may not ever realize is there.

6. For both men and women often a sense of fear and a believe in scarcity holds them back. “I am not worth more money,” they may say. Or “I’m lucky to be with this company. Money is scarce and I am lucky to be paid at all.” Huge limiting beliefs can be an impediment both to negotiation and to using a coach.

7. Like the CEO who earned an extra $300,000 a year or the Librarian who made a part-time job into a full salaried one know the difference between the process of negotiation and the strategies. When you need help with particular situations this is not mere process. It is the need to have a strategic customized approach of your own. Knowing the difference and having to courage to ask for help will make you more money.

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What Do I Stand to Lose if I go First?

Posted by jkchapman on June 02, 2010
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In general I have always held that (s)he who goes first loses.

However, I have since re-thought that stance based on my discussion with other professionals, the results in behavioral labs and some of my own experience. The result being that in the latest edition (6th) of my book: Negotiating Your Salary How to Make a $1,000 a Minute I have changed my answer to “it depends…”

So while I generally agree with the premise stated above,I’d like to add one comment.

In any negotiation, first number that is expressed acts like a magnet. If the employer was originally thinking $20,000 and you start by asking for $30,000 immediately the employer often will start thinking differently. The number the employer has in mind will probably go up. Instead of thinking 20,000 or offering 20,000 the employer will now likely begin to start thinking of something in the 25,000 26,000 range. You won’t see or track how the salary goes up but in all likelihood it will go up to number that is significantly higher.

So you really have a choice about whether you want to go first or whether you want to go second in the negotiation. Going first has a little bit of risk though, because if you go too high employer may throw in the towel and say never mind: that we are too far apart and then the employer will go to the next person in line.

It is unlikely, however. The more likely thing is that the employer sees that you’re worth more than they had been thinking and stretches to give you more money. So the advice used to be sound to let them go first but if you’re willing to take a little bit of risk and you’re willing to defend and illustrate why you’re worth more going first will give you a leg up rather than being low-balled.

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What are the Main Influences Around the Boss’s Decision to Raise My Salary?

Posted by jkchapman on June 02, 2010
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Many people think that getting a raise is a rational process. They mean that they can monetize their achievements and demonstrate this to an employer who will make a mathematical calculation and will say, “Here’s your raise.” Nothing is farther from the truth. The most important thing to getting a raise is a positive mental attitude at work. It means having the sparkle in your eyes, having a positive sounding voice, an energetic and open manner and treating everyone with respect AND especially avoiding any gossip. So it’s the emotions that really determine weather the boss will give you a raise more than mathematics.

One other comment:

Another element of getting a raise is seeking “humble pie.” It means doing your job the way the boss wants you to do it. Most of us are very good at criticizing our boss. We don’t understand that our job is to make the boss a star.

One of the best ways to do this is to ask the boss a question. “Boss when it comes time for your review with your boss what can I do so that your boss will make you a star.” Then, instead of just simply doing your job you are on your way to doing it the way your boss wants you to do it. Of course, if you think that something is incorrect or insufficient you certainly can mention it to him or her; but don’t just go ahead and do things your own way. A lot of the points this article makes are also illustrated in my book.

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Some Valuable Information Can Be Worth Your Entire Salary!

Posted by jkchapman on May 31, 2010
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The right inside information can be worth your entire salary!

It may be against SEC rules to buy or sell stock based on “insider information” – Just ask Martha Stewart! but there’s nothing wrong with finding out how they’re calculating and defining value on the other side of the table in a negotiation.

Hell, it’s what the Richard Gere character in “Pretty Woman” did for a living!

As a matter of fact, I know a good sized Mergers & Acquisitions firm that spends a good part of the first day of a 2-day “Selling a Privately Held Business” seminar telling this story:

There was a small business owner that built a nice successful business and when it came time to sell, he was insulted by the low-ball offer he received from a very large well known brand that was not a competitor. He took his company off the market and spent the next two years researching and stuying everything he could learn about how top paid executives put together such deals but concentrated especially on what motivates them to pursue one company over another.

Well he must have been a very good student because not long after he got top dollar for his company from the very same Big Brand Company that not twenty four months earlier had insulted him. His secret? The difference was now he knew “why” that big brand was persuing him and wanted to buy him out. As it turned out, the worth of his company wasn’t to be found on his balance sheet or income statement at least according to his suitors.It was instead based on the precious shelf space his bulky product took on prime big box retailer’s shelves like True Value and Walgreen’s. The buyer it seems had a bulky product too but it was seasonal one and this company figured if it could just get its hands on this small company that each year took the place of their products on those shelves in thousands of stores across the country, well, it would be worth millions to them!

Of course, the same is true in most any negotiation. If you know what the other party values, it’s a whole lot easier to surmize what their top offer might be and what their walkin’ away number might be as well. MBAs get paid some pretty good money to do just this kind of math.

So imagine, then, if you knew for example, that your former employer was desperate to get you back as they were threatened from losing a number of prime accounts or the fact that a hiring decision maker at a company you’ve been dying to work for just had their prime candidate turn down their offer and now is desperate to fill this position – with you! How would you use this new-found leverage?

Naturally, Your negotiating power would go up immensely and that can add dollars to your compensation.

The best way to understand what’s possible here is to read through the real life example. I just love it when I can help a client lock in on one of these because they’re so valuable.

Here’s a real life example to prove the point. I call this one “Make ‘em Sweat!”

Acme Training, Inc., [ATI] sent trainers to client companies to train employees in standard software (Word, Excel…). A star trainer, Betty, quit to go out on her own. ATI’s customers rejected three trainers they sent to replace her. Betty talked with these former clients and found out how desperate ATI was to have her back.

When ATI approached Betty to ask if she’d reconsider, Betty said, “Maybe… but my current independent contracts preclude me from working at ATI for six months.” 6 months!! ATI could lose customers entirely in six months. Tens of thousands of dollars.

The result? Betty negotiated better pay, finder’s fees on new business she brought in, severance in case things didn’t work out, and limited the vague noncompete to a specific list of four clients.

SWEET!

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What if I need a Lawyer to help finish Salary Negotiations?

Posted by jkchapman on March 12, 2010
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There are some important situations in which salary and job negotiations need the assist of a lawyer. Usually these cases occur in higher paying executive and professional jobs. Some negotiations for research jobs may also require an attorney’s help. Usually the moment after the offer is made, especially executive jobs, it is an accepted practice to allow the job candidate some time to think over the offer. You have your offer and you may have been given documents to sign. It is in this time period, and even afterwards, that you may need to have an opportunity to share legal documents with an attorney.

Being prepared for job and salary negotiations is always necessary. It is true that the jobs that may need legal advice are also positions in which these candidates would benefit greatly from salary coaching. However, I offer these thoughts because it is wise to know where potential land mines are located. The following, my thoughts and opinions about legal matters are from my own experiences as a veteran career and salary coach.

Many V.P. positions, the so-called “C-Level” positions with complicated golden parachutes, performance clauses obviously need legal attention. Most lower and middle management positions don’t. Where do you draw the line?

The first strong indicator you need a lawyer is anytime you’re asked to sign anything other than a straightforward list itemizing compensation. Please, get legal review before you sign any unusual document, not afterwards.

If you’re given something that sounds like their lawyer wrote it, let your lawyer read it. There’s a strong probability you won’t fully know what it means. Sometimes, more important than telling you what’s in a document, a lawyer can tell you what’s not there. For example, there may be missing language about default provisions such as dispute resolution, attorneys’ fees and commission payments. So please read the document and of course, have an attorney tell you what it really means.

The most common compensation related documents that need special attention are the “nons.” Non-compete, non-disclosure and non-solicitation. Be careful. Job candidates sometimes say “I don’t worry; non-competes are not enforceable anyway.” Wrong!

Non-Compete, Non Disclosure, Non-Solicitation, Non anything, can all be enforceable. Even if it can’t be enforced, it can cost a considerable sum to fight it. Even if you “win,” by the time this dispute is cleared up by a Judge, you may have lost a job opportunity with that competitor and wasted a lot of time and money in the process.

Often a competitor won’t consider you for a job until your conflict is cleared up. New Employers obviously won’t wait out a lawsuit. Many employees don’t understand the full implications of legal provisions, but a lawyer usually can tell you quickly. For now, remember, if these documents show up at the very end of your employment discussions and they tuck a “non” into the documents when you’re signing things like your innocuous W-4 tax forms in personnel, don’t sign, wait. Have legal man look at it first.

Let’s look at non-compete agreements. Think about what they’re asking you to give up. Is it worth it? Can you live with its provisions?

The other side of the coin is what you can gain by signing a non-compete? To start with, a hiring company probably won’t think to offer you anything as a benefit other than your job. But if you’re giving up something, you should get something in return, no?

If you sign a non-compete, that could add 2-6 months to your job search. You deserve compensation for that. Try to limit a non-compete to voluntary termination; that is, it applies if you quit, but not if you’re fired. Even if it applies if you do quit, why not still negotiate for 6 months’ severance in consideration of the non-compete and its effect on your job search?

The following situations are examples of when to not only to have the agreement in writing, but to have it in writing in a way that’s enforceable-hence, let a lawyer help you in these situations:

o When you’ve negotiated a valuable bonus, severance, residual commissions, stock option vesting or other financial extra, that you will be paid upon even after you leave a company.
o When you’re leaving a good position going to a competitor (and your company will never take you back), or having to relocate, you’d be well advised to get legally accurate assurances of the security of your new position. I call it covering the “what if’s”. For example, what if the new position doesn’t work out.
o Equity or Partnership participation in the company, and participation in bonus pools or profit sharing can be confusing. If anything’s fuzzy now, ask your counsel to explain it.
o It is usually critical to get a written contract if you’re bringing something to the table that you want to walk out with when you and your new employer [inevitably] part ways.

A written contract to cover this last situation is important, and often over-looked. For example, experienced sales people with their list of established clients and contacts want to keep the rights to solicit them if they leave the company. Recruiters, accountants, lawyers, etc., all build up clients who are more loyal to them personally than to the company or firm they work in. If they leave the firm, it’s important to be clear up front whether it’s fair game to bring clients along to your new job situation.

Scientists and others might want to keep part of their inventions and other intellectual property. If you don’t have a written contract, anything you bring to the table or develop while an employee, may well end up the property of your employer. This may be true even if you’re doing it at home on your own time, money, and laboratory.

These kinds of situations can impact you, even if you’re not an inventor-type. Employers can lay claim to any practical methodology, improvement or innovations you create in your work. Beyond this ownership situation, you might also lose your option to continue to work on this project, or whatever it is that your employer wants to control, once you are gone. In some cases you may be prevented from writing on your contributions and your work experiences. That’s not a very good position to build a career from. Protecting your intellectual property needs to be spelled out by a lawyer.

The bottom line: if you want to be sure you walk out with something, get it in writing before you walk in. I have one final word about getting a lawyer. There are two kinds of lawyers in this domain: the ones who work for the companies and the ones who work for the individual (sometimes know as the plaintiff). The lawyer usually best suited for your needs is the one that works for individual.

In the beginning of your tenure with a company, you’re on a honeymoon phase. They like you. They hired you. You both expect great things and a bright future. When the end comes – and sometime it will – the parting is not amicable. In those situations, it’s nice to have the exit doors open and clearly marked. You, yourself, can make sure they’re open. Spend an hour or so with your lawyer to make sure everything is clearly spelled out and enforceable.

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